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10 Fab Divorce Quotes!

Here are some fab divorce quotes – enjoy…or not! Do you have any to add?   Men tell me that I have saved their marriages.  It costs them a fortune in shoes, but it’s cheaper than a divorce.  So I’m still useful,

Children Deal with Divorce Differently

We all know and understand that each child is different and how he or she handles divorce will be unique to them.  Yet we are also probably aware that the reaction that they have will also depend on their age or developmental stage.

Divorce – Children Need Fathers

As a new year begins, many of us will be looking at the year ahead as a time of change. For many parents across the UK, this may also be a time of anxiety and stress; sadly, many family breakups tend to

How to Divorce – Is there a ‘Right’ Way?

How to Divorce? I met a wife in mediation a couple of weeks ago who was clutching her twenty page list of chattels she ‘must have’ from the formal matrimonial home. She admitted that it was not really about the chattels but

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Dealing with Pain

When it comes to dealing with pain, the strangest thing I ever did to help me move on was to literally speak to myself, out loud, while I got ready for bed one day. I had spent the day, like the previous

Divorce Over 40 – Me and Them Thinking

I was 45 when I married husband number 2 and 50 something when I left.  Hardly front page news.  But the fact that 66% of UK divorces in 2011 were initiated by women might be. In a recent article I read a

Co-Parenting Tips for a Healthy Relationship

One of the biggest fears for parents going through separation is the impact it will have on their children. The decision to separate is not usually made quickly or easily and the process of ending a relationship is difficult.  This is an

Life after Divorce – your Image

Although I see men also, most of my client base is female – many of whom come to see me to mark a significant event such as a big birthday or returning to work after maternity leave. There are lots of reasons