Divorce is complicated; there are no two ways about it. Knowing what to do after a divorce is not something that comes naturally to everyone and often times help is needed. Some women are able to pick up the pieces and start
For many, breaking the bonds of marriage by way of divorce may seem like some sort of a shortcoming, a missed opportunity, or even failure. To be perfectly honest, divorce is anything but In this day and age divorce is far more common
I know its hard right now and I won’t ask you to list what is hurting you the most because honestly you may not know at this point in time or you may have too many to list. I too had this
I remember seeing a friend post beautiful pictures of what looked to be an awesome vacation she took on Facebook. When I called to get details she said to me “Charis it was the worst vacation ever. They lost my luggage, my
Have you ever heard of someone who has made the statement like “I wish I could have had this or that but it’s not going to happen for me?” In the early stages of divorce I would look at married couples and
The first 3 days without my ex-husband in our home was terrifying for me. I could not sleep because I was constantly checking windows, doors, kids, and then I would start the rotation all over again until daylight. After those three days
We have all had those days, days when it just feels like everything is hopeless and there is really no point in getting out of the bed. For those women over 50 that have been through the struggles of divorce this might
Pride and arrogance were embedded in my thoughts after my second marriage. I was so determined to not really tell anyone how much I was suffering out of pride. I also had this attitude because I had divorced before and I didn’t
It is so easy to not be truthful when you are hurt. I remember telling someone I’m good, this divorce isn’t nothing to me I have been there done that. Unfortunately that was far from the truth and ultimately it led to
One of the hardest things to do when you feel as if you have been victimized is be wise in what you say. When your divorce is a result of an affair this is one of the areas that you see the
I have divorced twice and in that I have had two totally different experiences. After my first divorce I remember going into my boss’s office with my supervisor and a couple other staff members to ask for a few days to recoup. In
One of the hardest things to do after any divorce is to accept discipline. I remember sitting in front of a financial advisor a year after my second divorce. She was going over some things with me and I became very argumentative.