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Navigating your finances through divorce: A comprehensive guide
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Navigating Your Finances Through Divorce: A Comprehensive Guide

Andrew Robotham
Andrew Robotham
Divorce & Family Lawyer
Woolley & Co Solicitors

Going through a divorce is undoubtedly a challenging time, and it’s crucial to understand that completing the legal process is just one aspect. Sorting out finances is equally important but often overlooked. In this guide, we’ll address common reasons why people delay or avoid settling financial matters, emphasising the potential pitfalls, and offering guidance for a smoother financial transition.

Why do some delay a divorce settlement?

  1. Believing there is nothing to protect: Some couples think they have nothing valuable to protect, so hiring a solicitor seems unnecessary. However, even seemingly modest assets should be properly addressed to avoid future complications.
  2. Self-resolution confidence: Couples who are amicable and believe they can sort out financial arrangements by themselves may delay seeking professional advice. While this may work initially, unforeseen changes or disagreements can arise later.
  3. Cost concerns: The perception that hiring a solicitor is expensive leads some to avoid professional assistance. However, the long-term financial consequences of not settling matters properly can far outweigh the initial cost.
  4. Information agreements: Couples who have informally agreed on financial matters may skip the formal process. Unfortunately, without a legally binding agreement, these arrangements can be challenged in the future.
  5. Postponing due to stress: Some couples decide to delay financial discussions, thinking they can revisit them later. However, procrastination can lead to legal and financial complications down the road.

Importance of timely settlement

Future claims:

Without a consent order, an ex-partner may have legal claims on assets acquired post-divorce, such as lottery winnings or inheritances.

Changing circumstances:

Amicable relations can change due to new partners or altered circumstances. A delay might result in a partner changing their stance on previously agreed-upon terms.

Tax implications:

Delays may lead to unnecessary tax liabilities, especially regarding capital gains tax on property sales not considered the main residence.

Asset valuation:

Waiting to resolve assets can lead to disputes over their current value, potentially disadvantaging one party. It’s crucial to have up-to-date valuations during settlement discussions.

Financial advice and consent orders

Seek professional advice:

Consulting financial advisors and solicitors ensures you make informed decisions and protects your interests in the long run.

Consent orders:

Even if you’ve amicably agreed on terms, formalise the agreement with a court-issued consent order. This legally binding document prevents future disputes and ensures financial clarity.

Conclusion: Take control of your financial future

In conclusion, while the emotional aspects of divorce are undeniable, addressing financial matters promptly is crucial for a secure future. Regardless of the simplicity of your financial situation, seeking professional advice and obtaining a consent order will protect you from potential legal and financial pitfalls. Remember, the initial investment in settling matters now is far less than the potential cost – both financially and emotionally – of neglecting proper financial resolution. If you’ve decided on or are going through a divorce, ensure your financial affairs are in order for a smoother transition into the next chapter of your life.

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About Andrew Robotham

Andy is an experienced divorce and family lawyer with Woolley & Co, Solicitors. He has built an enviable reputation in the Derbyshire and Leicestershire area. He deals with all areas of matrimonial law, including divorce, children matters, financial settlements as well as civil partnerships, separation, cohabitation, and prenuptial agreements.

In the 2020 edition of Legal 500 Andy is named as a Recommended Lawyer for Family Law in the East Midlands, where it is noted ‘Andrew Robotham’s qualities are numerous. He is able to combine empathy for the situation as well as total professionalism that the circumstances demand’.

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Going through divorce without a lawyer

Going through Divorce without a Lawyer

Andrew Robotham
Family Lawyer with
Woolley & Co

As a family lawyer one question I have been asked many times over the years is ‘can I deal with the divorce proceedings myself?’

The answer to this question is of course yes.

Anyone who has sufficient time, a brief background of the process and an ability to complete forms accurately could complete their own divorce petition and lodge the proceedings with the court.

However, this is not as simple a process as many people make out.

I have found through years of practice that I have very often been contacted by parties who have issued divorce proceedings only to find them rejected by the court due to some error being made on the paperwork and then not having a clue how to deal with matters thereafter.

At Woolley & Co our lawyers collectively have over 340 years’ worth of experience, which means we can offer a fixed price for the work to complete all the divorce paperwork meaning clients know exactly what they would pay through to Decree Absolute if the divorce itself is not defended.

Getting divorce paperwork right first time

What parties fail to realise is that the courts very strict in relation to how the paperwork is completed.

If there is an error in relation to what is detailed on the marriage certificate or if there is an error or insufficient detail in relation to what the particulars are regarding the reason why the marriage has broken down then the court can simply reject the divorce petition.

A District Judge must consider the petition and if it is considered that the grounds for divorce noted within that petition are insufficient then the petition can be thrown back and rejected in its entirety.

Just to make matters worse, the latest development has been a complete change in the format and lay out of the divorce petition itself. It is safe to say that none of us like change but change has to happen.

going through divorce without lawyers
DIY divorce could be a false economy

The latest version of the divorce forms are designed to enable people to be able to issue those proceedings themselves and effectively simplify the process.

However, the basic details and the basic information that is required for the Judge to consider whether a marriage has irretrievably broken down is exactly the same.

Whilst the forms may appear to be somewhat simpler they are still complicated in as much as they request a lot of detail and need to be completed in the way expected by the court if the court is to allow the process to progress.

Dealing with financial claims in the divorce process

As well as justifying a reason for the breakdown of the marriage which must be proven in every divorce case it is also necessary within the divorce petition to put forward all your initial financial claims within the marriage.

Whilst this is separate process from a legal perspective it is inextricably linked to the divorce itself.

The question is therefore if you do not include all your financial claims at the outset what difficulties may this pose for you later in proceedings?

DIY divorce could be a false economy

We are all short of time in what is a busy world and we are all looking to cut costs wherever possible to make life easier.

Whether the new divorce petition makes life easier and whether it is worth the risk of lodging the paperwork incorrectly and finding your petition rejected is something for you to consider.

And perhaps more importantly are you willing to risk the change that you have not made the appropriate financial claims and therefore lose out on what you might legitimately be entitled to?

I’m all in favour of simplifying the law, for clients and for us as family lawyers, but I do think it’s very important to understand the legal implications of decisions you make when you divorce, especially when it comes to agreeing a financial settlement.

And although all of us who’ve worked in the family law arena for years might think the forms and terminology is straight-forward to the public it really isn’t. So, do take advice and get help from an experienced family lawyer.

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About Andrew Robotham

Article written by Andrew Robotham family lawyer with Woolley & Co, Solicitors.

Andy advises on all aspects of divorce, separation and family law and is highly regarded by clients and fellow professionals alike. You can reach Andy on 01332 413109.

Article first published on the Woolley & Co, Solicitors website here – Doing your own divorce – Can I go it alone.